Sunday, June 21, 2015

3 Reasons Why Retreat for the Soul is THE Play-date for Adults

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Let Your Soul Soar!
You do so much that is important for your body like eat well, exercise right, and get a good night's sleep.  And, we care for our mind by doing daily "brain exercises" with memory lists like:
  1. remember to pick up the dry-cleaning,
  2. get the dog from the groomer
  3. ..wasn't there something else? Oh yeah…the KIDS!

Life is hard work! If I knew I had to give up play for work I would never have become an adult.

Play is so important for social growth that we make sure our children and pets have scheduled play-time. We make them play-dates.
When was the last time you scheduled yourself a Play-date?
You may be starved for joy.  Yes, starved! As women, and some men, we are the natural care-givers in our families. Many of us were trained that way; others were naturally born with the gift of giving. Are you the one who cares for your family?
You spend time and money for everyone else …first.  So...what have you done lately for YOURELF? Better yet, what have you done for your SOUL? When was the last time you felt it soar through the air and sing like a bird? It may have been trying to speak to you in Daydreams. Have you been too busy to listen or even notice?
It is time to give your body a Play-date and your SOUL a treat with Retreat for the Soul.
According to a study published in PsychCentral.com Play is just as important for adults as it is for children. “Defining play is difficult because it’s a moving target,” Scott G. Eberle, Ph.D, vice president for play studies at The Strong and editor of the American Journal of Play, said. “[It’s] a process, not a thing.” He said that it begins in anticipation and hopefully ends in poise. “In between you find surprise, pleasure, understanding — as skill and empathy — and strength of mind, body, and spirit.”
Here what some other experts and studies have said about the importance of adult play time.
  • “The only kind [of play] we honor is competitive play,” according to Bowen F. White, MD, a medical doctor and author of Why Normal Isn’t Healthy.

  • “We don’t lose the need for novelty and pleasure as we grow up.” Scott G. Eberle, Ph.D. vice president for play studies at The Strong and editor of the American Journal of Play.

Psychiatrist Dr. Stuart Brown, founder of the National Institute for Play, calls play a “state of being.” Brown compares play to oxygen. He writes, “…it’s all around us, yet goes mostly unnoticed or unappreciated until it is missing.” This might seem surprising until you consider everything that constitutes play. Play is art, books, movies, music, comedy, flirting and daydreaming, writes Dr. Brown,

Competitive play in children prepares them for competition in the adult world and work place. But, what is an adult to do who has been in a competitive environment all day and needs to play for the sake of playing, as our experts have pointed out?
We have a Retreat for your soul. Partake of a day full of dreams, socializing and adult play.
It will do you a world of good.
Retreat for the Soul focuses on YOU!
CLICK HERE FOR Retreat Info  http://bit.ly/1H3IH7J
You deserve to Take 1 DAY out of your busy life for YOU!
Come and join us, Wicked Housewives On Cape Cod TV & Radio Hosts/Producers http://www.wickedhousewivesoncapecod.com/   Lori Boyle http://www.loriboylemedia.com/and Kathleen O’Keefe-Kanavos http://accessyourinnerguide.com/,  Award winning and bestselling author, Driven Women Keynote, and Dream Therapist on beautiful Cape Cod for the One-Day-Event.
You will join others focused on soul centered workshops and group exercises like dream mask therapy,   and  protective and forgiveness meditations, to name just a few.
Imagine spending the day with selectively-chosen like-minded adults in the relaxed comfort of a private large waterfront home on beautiful Cape Cod.  (Limit- 20 participants!)
Make this your Destination Retreat. Your Lighthouse for the Soul.
Take care of your spirit and it will take care of you.





ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Kathleen O’Keefe Kanavos is a TV Host/Producer of Wicked Housewives ON Cape Cod, Author of International Bestseller & Multi-award winner Surviving Cancerland: Intuitive Aspects of Healing, & 3x Breast Cancer Survivor whose dreams diagnosed cancer. She’s published in medical journals. Kat believes dreams diagnose your life. “Did you have a déjà- vu or dream come true?” Kat’s interpretations are in American Express Open Forum. She’s a Coach & “Go-to authority” on Beauty, Health, Wealth & Relationships, Keynote Speaker/Panelist/Presenter at International Associations, Columnist, & blogs on many professional sites like DreamCloud, Breast Cancer Yoga. Kat taught Special Education and Psychology at USF. http://SurvivingCancerLand.com/   www.AccessYourInnerGuide.com

Friday, June 5, 2015

‘Fat To Fearless’ with Asher Fox – AUDIO

‘Fat To Fearless’ with Asher Fox – AUDIO



Are you tired of Yo-yo that don't work? #AsherFox tells #LoriBoyle of #WickedHouseWivesOnCapeCod his secret to loosing 100+lbs.



Kathleen O'Keefe-Kanavos is an Award winning, International Best Selling Author of Surviving Cancerland: Intuitive Aspects of Healing and one of the Wicked Housewives On Cape Cod TV Producer/Host. learn more about Kat @ www.AccessYourInnerGuide.com

Monday, May 18, 2015

5 Simple Solutions to Give You an Edge During a Long Interview Process.



How do you stay mentally fresh during a long job interview process? Perhaps you have considered finding a new job, or asking for a higher paying position in your current  company.
  One of the things that may be holding you back from going forward is the long, nerve wracking interview process itself that may involve many call backs for higher level interviews.


How can you stay fresh and on top of your game in an energy charged environment? 


Long interviews can be emotionally and physically exhausting for a number of reasons:
·         You know you are completing against other experts in your field.
·         Your attitude and sustainability under pressure is also being judged, so you must be "up" at all times without looking fake.
·         It is difficult living under a microscope for an extended period of time.

Here is some advice for job seekers.


Remember-You are all in the same interview process so focus on what can you do to move ahead of the other interviewees.


Here are 5 Simple Solutions that answer the questions:

  • What are some ways to stay mentally fresh throughout the process?
  • What are some ways to find serenity as the pressure mounts?
  • How should you approach other opportunities that may arise? 


5 Things You Can Do to Give Yourself the Edge During a LONG Interview Process.


1.) Wear comfortable shoes- sounds simple but when your feet hurt your whole body hurts, and it shows on your face which may be mistaken as a "grumpy person."



2.) Positive mental attitude: Start your day right with mirror therapy. When you brush your teeth in the morning tell your reflection why you are the best candidate for the job by focusing on our strengths, then tell yourself how much you appreciate your opportunity to share your qualifications with others. The words you say now may pop into your mind later in the day during the interview, and you will say them with confidence because you believe them.


3.)  Keep up your momentum when you are neck-to-neck with someone else for the job.  Anytime you sit down take 3 deep "empowering breaths" and imagine them going to any part of your body or spirit where they are needed for reinforcement. 

4.) Smile! Even if you do not get this job, your smile may be so memorable it will open doors for another one. You just never know.

5.) Drink plenty of water. Dehydration under pressure shuts down the brain neurons which slows down thinking and responses. You must be on top of your game.




Kathleen O'Keefe-Kanavos taught The Profoundly Emotionally Disturbed for 10 years and Psychology at University of South Florida. She is a TV/Radio Producer/Host of Wicked Housewives On Cape Cod, the award winning author of the International Bestseller Surviving Cancerland: Intuitive Aspects of Healing and advocates for health and healing at International Conferences throughout the country. Learn more about Kat @ www.AccessYourInnerGuide.com


Saturday, May 2, 2015

The Kathleen O'Keefe-Kanavos Show w/ Meg & Shannon Sullivan-DONE WITH DIETS 05/07 by Wicked World Radio | Self Help Podcasts





The Kathleen O'Keefe-Kanavos Show w/ Meg & Shannon Sullivan-DONE WITH DIETS 05/07 by Wicked World Radio | Self Help Podcasts



Are you a modern woman who is always short on time and making sure that everybody else's needs are taken care of before your own. Is there EVER any time left for you? If you've felt this way, then this radio show can help you.



Is DIET your four letter word? Are you frustrated with endless diets? Do you know that there are more than just food diets? Do you unconsciously Diet Your Time? And feel Emotionally Undernourished or Stressed ?  So many of us do and don't even know we are unsuccessfully sabotaging our success by dieting our time. Join sisters Meg and Shannon Sullivan as we discuss the concepts of the Done With Diets Summit to learn how to manage your food and time rather than having them manage you. DONE WITH DIETS. Those are words for thought that can change your life for the better. Call into the LIVE show to speak with Meg and Shannon  CALL IN # 347-826-9554







Kathleen O'Keefe-Kanavos is the Producer and Host of Wicked Housewives On Cape Cod TV & Radio and the author of the International Bestseller Surviving Cancerland: Intuitive Aspects of Healing. 

Saturday, April 4, 2015

Dream: Becoming Barefoot



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I had this dream last night and thought I’d share it with all of you for your responses to it. Have you ever had a dream that was so real you thought you were awake? And, so full of information you were sure it was important?
Dream: Becoming Barefoot
“What sets your dreams apart from your life will set your life on the right path.”~ Kathleen O’Keefe-Kanavos
I am traveling around Europe with my husband’s family for a relaxing family vacation. I am in a church where I am to meet the rest of the family to go to the next place. I throw down my clothes on a pew and shout, “That’s it! I’m done with this. It’s too hard.”

A voice says, “Go in through the back.”

butterfly dreams Suddenly, I see Paul, my brother-in-law dressed in a trench coat and carrying a brief case, walk behind the alter and enter a hidden door in the paneling. I follow into a dark narrow corridor that is a dead end except a door on the left with a sign on the wall that reads MEN, like a men’s bathroom. “Aqua” is whispered and the door opens. Rather than leading into a room, it leads outside where a group of women wearing hippy-style clothing are chatting.

“What is this called?” I ask.

“Becoming Barefoot.”

One of the women, who I recognize says, “Hey, Kat , wanna’ see Linda’s cats?” I tell her sure and follow them to a house with a room full of cats lounging on a bed, which I pick up and hug. “Want to go with us to Tibet with us?” She asks.

“Sure.”

I follow them to an old open bed truck and climb into the back with everyone else. The truck drives a ways down a road then stops. “We have to go on by foot from here,” someone says.

As we walk down the path it rises into a wall of narrow wooden steps five inches wide by an inch deep.
“You have to take off your shoes and hold on by your toes and finger tips,” one of the women says. I kick off my heels and climb effortlessly through a trapdoor. The surrounding area is pitch-black except for the night sky filled with star constellations. “What is this?” I ask.

“Becoming Barefoot.”


I take out my cell phone to call my family and let them know I will be late but all I see are the same star constellations on the dark face of my phone. “There is no service here,” someone says.


We all sit in a circle in a covered bus stop and someone rolls a huge joint. As they light it the joint blazes then starts to fall apart because it is so loose, but they start smoking it anyway and pass it to me. “Are you okay, Kat?” one of the girls named Sue asks.


“Yeah.” I take the joint and although I used to pass on it since it always made me so sick to my stomach, this time I take a deep breath, close my eyes and hold it as long as I can before blowing it out. As I exhale I open my eyes and the sun is out. There is snow all over the ground and we are in a neighborhood, but my feet are not cold.“When did it become day?” I thought. “What if they worry about where I am and can’t get in touch with me?”


“It won’t matter, you’ll work it out, rent a car and catch up to them, use a GPS to find them. Don’t worry about it,” a voice says.

We begin our descent back down the narrow stairs and when I reach the bottom I call on my cell and leave Norma the message that I will be late.

“We’ll wait,” she says.

The dream ends.

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Interpretation: When life becomes stressful with is rules and regulations the successful people use a different approach, the back or a different door. In order to reach the heavens we must kick off our earthly shoes, connect with the ground, our Inner selves and have a little “party time with them” to reconnect with what is important in life. Time can be a burden. We all need to become barefoot and worry free.

Ask and you will receive is more than words. It is a request heard by the Universe and answered by our Spirit guides. We are made up of more than id, ego and super ego. Sometimes it is not until we are falling apart that our inner selves pop to the surface to hold us together.

Becoming barefoot is a big step to connecting with higher self.



InternationalKathleen O’Keefe-Kanavos believes dreams diagnose your life. Did you have a déjà-vu or dream come true? Kat survived three cancers diagnosed by dreams. International Bestselling Author,  Dream Expert, Keynote Speaker, TV/Radio Producer/Host of Wicked Housewives On Cape Cod, Columnist; she’s featured in magazines & newspapers, on NBC News.  Kat taught Special Education & Psychology at (USF).  AccessYourInnerGuide.com   SurvivingCancerLand.com